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"Sex is one of the few things in our culture that we are not allowed to watch in order to learn from, and because our culture’s history is so rooted in sex-negativism, just talking about sex for most people feels like going to the dentist! Instead of speaking up and asking questions, most people turn to pornography to learn how to be better lovers, which is like trying to learn to drive from watching The Fast and The Furious. Bad idea!"

- Reid Mihalko -

"We tend to think in relationships as static, as if we could just get into them, assume a position inside them and then continue to hold it, essentially without changing forever, world without end. But in fact, our relationships are fluid, vivid, mercurial, and constantly changing"

- Daphne Rose Kingma -

"Most of the people have no idea how good their body is designed to feel"

- Kevin Trudeau -

"The most abundant etiology of sexual problems, rather than medical or psychopathological origin, comes from lack of education and ignorance of sexual function"

- Masters and Johnson -

(Human Sexual Response, 1966)

"The bonds of wedlock are so heavy that it takes two to carry them, sometimes three".

- Alexandre Dumas -

"Sex is an emotion in motion"

- Mae West -

"Eroticism is not logical, is deeply illogical, so we have to engage with it illogically, from a place where we operate emotionally, from our heart. We don't operate from our mind necessarily, and this is what terrifies people"

-Cyndi Darnell

"Religion, we think, hs a great deal to offer to many people - the comfort of faith and the security of community among them. But believing that God doesn't like sex, as many religions seem, is like believe that God doesn't like you. Because of this belief, a tremendous number of people carry great shame for their own perfectly natural sexual desires and activities"

- Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy -

If we want to feel complete in a sexual level , we may start with this tree steps:

Knowing what I want

Knowing how to ask for what I want

Knowing how to recive what I ask for

"Sexuality is not a leisure or a part time activity. It is a way of being"

- Alexander Lowen -

'What language conceals is said through my body. My body is a stubborn child; my language is a very civilized adult"

- Roland Barthes -

"Sex is not a metaphor for a relationship, it's a parallel narrative. It speaks its own language"

- Esther Perel -

“Sex is the driving force on the planet. We should embrace it, not see it as the enemy”

- Hugh Hefne -

"One of the bigest myths that we have about sex is that is natural. Sex is not natural, we have to learn how to do it"

- Cyndi Darnell -

"Let's be shameless. Be greedy. Pursue pleasure. Avoid pain. Wear and touch and eat and drink what we feel like. Tolerate other women's choices. Seek out the sex we want and fight fiercely against the sex we do not want. Choose our own causes And once we break through and change the rules so our sense of our own beauty cannot be shaken, sing that beauty and dress it up and flaunt it and revel in it".

- Naomi Wolf -